Writing With Nibbles and Nudges

Writing With Nibbles and Nudges
“Writing is like fishing.  A nibble will always come, but all too often we dismiss the little nudge as not worthy of the great works we vaingloriously imagine we will write.” William Stafford

 

Poet William Stafford claimed never to have experienced writer’s block. His antidote when he felt it coming on was to lower his standards. By accepting the small nibbles and nudges that came to him he was able to keep writing.

The idea in my head will never match the words that come out onto my pages!  Perfectionism is a great obstacle to writing.   I must be faithful to write just what comes today and not to scorn my feeble attempts at the keyboard. When I start to feel anxious about the results of my work, the acceptance of the work by others, or the worthiness of my words I must stop and remember Stafford’s words. I may have set the standards too high.

The same is true of my spiritual life. God accepts us as we are not as we vaingloriously imagine we will be. Listen for the small nudges and whispers. Most of my growth has come through faithfulness to small nudges. When I am stuck spiritually often I need to go back to basics – the small practices of daily prayer, gratitude, journaling and private worship.

In our writing lives and in our spiritual lives great works start with small efforts. Today let go of the pressure to write a great work and simply write from the nibbles and nudges that come.

Happy Writing,  The Writing Sisters

If you are faithful in little things, you will be faithful in large ones.  Luke 16:10

29 Responses »

  1. So true – I’ve never suffered from writer’s block either. I don’t think I’m setting my sights low, but whole-heartedly accepting the flow of the writing and giving thanks for all of it. An upside of this approach is you tend to have a very varied backlist!

  2. So glad you commented on my blog today to lead me to yours! I am about to go for a walk… and I think I’ll pay attention to the nibbles and also the ‘whispers’ (as I read in one of your other posts). Thanks so much! Peace, Angela

  3. Wow, this is so good on so many levels! Having battled perfectionism all my life, I am thankful to the Lord that I have some victory over it–I still want to do my best every time, but HE has really helped me to reach for “do-able” goals. Knowing that He loves me as fully today, as at the start of my messed up life–and on my “off” days as much as my “on” ones–gives me new peace, joy and the power of the Holy Spirit flowing through me. And my efforts/results are “perfect enough”–for me, and for Him!

  4. Someone (a writer…maybe Larry David) said once that his life consisted of looking at a blank sheet of paper an figuring out what to write. I thought that was good.

    Perfectionism is such a trap. If you don’t end up writing anything because of it, then it doesn’t matter how good it might have been. Someone else said that you shouldn’t be afraid of bad writing, because you can make it better, and I liked that too.

  5. Oh how beautiful and true. The most insignificant stories I write tend to be the most enjoyed, while the ones I think are grand go without comment. Maybe folks relate better to imperfection, which is great news for me!

    Thank you sweet sisters!

  6. The feeling that everything had to be “perfect” kept most of my pieces in a perpetual state of being unfinished. There was always some little change here, some revamping there, that I felt would better express what I wanted to get across.

    Blogging has actually helped me to avoid the tendency to edit, re-edit, then re-edit again, ad-nauseam. If I want to keep my blog going by posting at least once a week, I don’t have time for perfectionism! There comes a point in blogging that you just have to hold your breath and push the “publish” button.

    I love that you related this to our spiritual life as well. May the Lord take our imperfect attempts at writing for His glory and filter them through the Good News of the Gospel. We can rest. He has done it all. It is finished!

  7. Good reminder! The nasty side to perfectionism is that it can keep one from writing, which leads one to feeling discouraged, which leads to more pressure to produce, which leads one to feel even worse, and….. The cycle doesn’t stop, unless one is willing to just WRITE.

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